Celebrations vs Observances: Why Language Matters

Do you ever feel yourself cringe when you say you "celebrated" something like Memorial Day? 

It's important to understand the nuanced difference between 'celebrating' and 'observing' holidays. 

When we celebrate a holiday, it's about active participation. This might mean decorating the office for Christmas, lighting the menorah for Hanukkah, or gathering with family and friends on the 4th of July.

On the other hand, observing a holiday is about acknowledgment and respect. It means recognizing that these special days are important and have significance. This includes holidays such as Memorial Day, Murdered Missing Indigenous Peoples Day, and others that require an element of sobriety.

Understanding the distinction between celebrating and observing is a vital aspect of demonstrating respect towards the days of observance. This comprehension allows us to pay appropriate homage, ensuring the integrity of the day remains intact and its true significance is not overlooked or diluted by inappropriate festivities.

I will never forget the first time I used the word 'celebrated' about an observance day. I was in front of an audience of about 15 government officials and it felt wrong as it came out. I was trying not to panic but I didn't know what word to use instead.

When I went home that night, I immediately researched, "what word to use instead of celebrate to talk about serious holidays." It's been about eight years since that moment and it's a mistake I still see a lot of people making. 

Let's work together to make sure we're using the right language out of respect for the reasons behind our observance days!